A Companion to Wired to Connect

The Connection
Assessment

You can be surrounded by people and still be alone. Before you can close a gap, you have to see it clearly. These twelve questions are a window.

12 Questions . ~5 min To complete . Free Instant result

How to Take It

Read each statement. Rate how true it is for you right now, using this scale. Answer for the season you are in now — not the one you used to be in or hope to be in.

Not true of me

Rarely true of me

Often true of me

Consistently true of me

Add up all twelve numbers for your total. The total will land between 12 and 48.

Question 1 of 12

"When something hard happens in my life, I have someone specific I would call — not to fix it, just to tell."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Question 2 of 12

"There is at least one person who knows the real version of how I am doing — not the version I give most people."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Question 3 of 12

"I have a friendship where the other person could walk into my house, sit down, and feel at home without asking."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Question 4 of 12

"When I think about reaching out to deepen a friendship, I follow through instead of letting the thought pass."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Question 5 of 12

"I have someone in my life who is further down the road than I am — someone I can learn from."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Question 6 of 12

"I make the first move in my friendships. I do not wait for other people to reach out first."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Question 7 of 12

"When a friendship goes still, I notice — and I do something about it rather than letting it drift."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Question 8 of 12

"I have let someone see something true about me in the last few months — something past the surface."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Question 9 of 12

"I belong to a group that meets with some regularity — a table I can count on being there."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Question 10 of 12

"When I have been hurt by people, I have stayed open to community rather than pulling back from it for good."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Question 11 of 12

"I have people I would walk into the wilderness for — and people who would come find me in mine."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Question 12 of 12

"My closest relationships are people I chose on purpose — not just whoever happened to be nearby."

1Not true of me

2Rarely true

3Often true

4Consistently true

Your Total Score

out of 48

1224344248

Your Connection Category

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Your Two Soft Spots

Look back at your twelve answers and note the two you scored lowest. Those are your soft spots — the specific places connection is thinnest for you.

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A Companion to Wired to Connect

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Who You Are Right Now

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The book has the rest.

The Connection
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