“You will be the same person in five years as you are today, except for the people you meet and the books you read.”
~ Charlie “Tremendous” Jones
Hey Chip, think about your best day ever. I’ll bet it involved other people.
A celebration feels bigger when other people are there. A setback feels lighter when someone helps you carry it. And growth, real, lasting growth, rarely happens in isolation.
That’s because God designed us for connection. Community isn’t a luxury; it’s a lifeline. Whether your challenge is career, finances, relationship, health, or something more profound, the right people make all the difference.
There is an epidemic of loneliness and isolation, but when we surround ourselves with people who encourage and challenge us, two things happen: we discover strengths we didn’t know we had, and we become aware of blind spots we couldn’t recognize on our own.
The truth is, going it alone may feel easier in the short run, but it almost always leads to burnout and missed opportunities. As my friend Derick Kopp says, “We can go faster alone, but we can go farther together.”
Scripture puts it plainly: “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”(Proverbs 27:17)
Here’s the mic-drop: Isolation drains you. Community sustains you.
So let me ask: Who’s in your corner? Do you have people who cheer when you win and speak truth when you drift? Are you creating space for meaningful conversations that stretch and strengthen you?
This week, I challenge you to lean in. Call a friend. Join a group. Because when you step into an authentic community, you step closer to the life you were designed for.

